A one night stand especially does not honor and respect what should be an act of love. It should not be done with someone you don’t know well enough to even know their name or remember it after one night out.
Clean sheets, privacy, or more than a chance meeting with soap, are necessities not just niceties.
Safety, trust, honor, and truthfulness should be expected not neglected. Pregnancy is a precious gift not an unwanted result of thoughtlessness and impulsiveness. Infertility can be the long-term result of taking a chance maybe just this once.
How do you know whom your shack up partner has been with and what calling cards were left from this encounter. Some people don’t even know if this is so and can’t tell you the truth since they don’t even know it.
Everyone has a built in need for affection and touch itself is an important form of communication. Why leave them out of the equation. Most people are uncomfortable when touched by a stranger even in an unavoidable crowded situation like the subway.
“Why don’t you show me you love me” is a popular line when seeking a good time. A person may not be ready yet to be that deeply involved with someone they really like and might be afraid to lose so they decide to chose to give the gift that they are not ready yet to give. It is priceless and expensive and can lead to bliss when properly used and reciprocated.
Putting the cart before the horse is usually not sensible or pleasurable especially for women.. There are ways that you can show person that you love them by how you treat them: a home cooked meal, a graciously opened door, a brush of a kiss, the tentative grasp of a hand, an arm around the shoulder, or a truthful compliment.
How often do we expect to get something in this world without earning it? Can a car motor go from first to fourth or fifth gear without taking any of the intervening steps like going through second or third gear?