Social interaction is crucial to children learning language. Watching a video or listening to an auditory version is not enough. Are children becoming autistic because people in our world are becoming less and less involved? What about a good old fashioned conversation or a satisfying read? Being unable to interact with others is a very real problem and I can see the day when children have virtual play dates? How removed from reality is this? Will we all sit home and rely on clouds and the internet to keep us in touch? Will the ethers be doing our talking? It will no longer be necessary to read or write as computers will communicate for us just by talking and ultimately will thoughts and images not words be used to share ideas?
This just started out as a blog about how children need human contact to learn and ultimately to thrive. Scarey isn’t it? For example, someday people will not sign their names, not just because they did not learn cursive writing; but because reading and writing are no longer considered necessary. We have done this since the dawn of the machine age and eliminating the human factor in creating things that we need and use. Is it possible we are also eliminating the good vibrations that many skilled, dedicated craftsmen and craftswomen put into their work.
I can think of three people who had trouble learning in school who went on to do something with their lives. One became an aircraft mechanic and successfully went to school to be certified as one. Not only did he graduate from the two year program, he went on to learn how to work on many different complicated aircraft that were developed during his career. Another man was considered to be “dumb” when he was in school, but went on to successfully make a living and have a family just like everybody else. A girl who had learning problems when she began school went on to college where she got an “A” in organic chemistry and then was accepted in a graduate masters program. No, no mistakes were made. These people’s abilities could have been seriously underestimated.
Different classes in the same grade in one school had different IQ test results given to their teachers. These were not the real results and the classes weren’t really any smarter even though their teachers were told so. Real results at the end of the year for students whose teachers who expected their students to be smarter were higher than they had been at the beginning of the year. I, for one was told, I would never get higher than a “B” in college and I didn’t live up to that person’s expectations. I never got lower than a “B” in college. You need to believe in yourself or to have someone who believes in you and lets you know it.
How smart are you if you don’t do well in school or if you don’t have an education. There are stories about famous people who did “poorly” in school as children and went on to make famous discoveries. Albert Einstein, Henry Ford, and Abraham Lincoln are some such people. Many times people are self-limiting; because they too easily accept others negative judgments of their abilities as accurate and resign themselves to be failures in life. It is what you believe or what your caregivers believe that can have a lot to do with what you actually do in life. This can even be true of people who are developmentally disabled especially in the past. People who had a child with such problems were often told that their child should be institutionalized and forgotten about as nothing could be done with them and nothing could be done about their problems. Seriously some people are born with serious deficiencies that can’t be corrected and don’t have a long life expectancy. Often these people will never be able to take care of themselves or to meet their own needs no matter how basic. For example, they never be able to feed themselves or communicate in any way. I have seen them. They need a great deal of care 24/7. I also have counseled parents who underestimated what their developmentally disabled child could do and who lived with some unacceptable behavior that their child could actually control.
How smart are you when others have low goals set for you. You may be capable of doing much more if you put your mind to it.