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Dating Mistakes

Have you ever been interested in someone romantically just because other people are  interested in them too?   Maybe you have been allowing other people to do your thinking for you?  This is often true when people are  in school where, for example, people like athletes and cheerleaders are popular.  Would you have gone with someone like that just because everybody else wanted to date them and they were considered to be hot?  Would you have gone with them even if you really didn’t know anything about them?  Would you be surprised to find out later that you didn’t share the same values or goals?

Have you ever gone out with somebody just because they were available?   Have you ever dated just to date?  How serious were you about the other person?   Who devalued who by doing this?  Of course you might have been mistaken about this person and  found out that this person (after you went out with him or her) was a person you really wanted to date again.  Some times by going out with people just because we want a date teaches us something else good if our judgment wasn’t too bad in the first place and we didn’t end  up being hurt.  What we learn out of a bad date is what type of person we don’t want to be involved with in the future.  Many people with low self esteem think that a date with anybody is better than no date at all.   This choice could end  up badly with  a serious consequence like  date rape

 

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