Becoming more mindful has led me to realize that the amount of money that something costs and whether it seems like too much or a real steal depends on what it is, who you are, and where you are. I first began to think about this when I started watching HGTV and realized that what was considered a reasonable price for a house in one part of the country or the world was not reasonable in another part. Decent-sized homes could be bought for $200,000 or less in some places, for $500,000 or less in others, and for over a million dollars in yet other places. The same was true of rent which ranged from under $1000 to several thousand dollars a month. The bigger prices were found not just in resort communities but also in suburban areas.
I am currently on a fixed income and am very money conscious. I found that what I considered to be a good price for something depended on what category it fell in. I found that I was the cheapest about clothes, hitting clearance racks and garage sales and usually spending under a few dollars usually no more than five or ten bucks; but I found that I would spend that much on eating out and on a very special occasion, I might double that. It all dealt with what I allowed myself to spend even actually keeping a running total in my head. Why is it more acceptable to spend more on laundry detergent than than on many grocery items?
You might not be on as tight a budget as I am and you may have to spend more to keep up appearances than I do. Even the higher house prices don’t shock you and you may have already invested that much in a place to live. What determines what seems reasonable to pay for one type of thing and not another? Yes, this can be a matter of personal taste and the desire for quality in something you purchase. But it does seem at least for me that I am willing to spend more on somethings than others. How did I get that way? Is it price fixing like the cost of a carton of pop? Is it brain washing? Is it due to propaganda? What one person considers acceptable to pay for something may not be acceptable to another person. How much of this is due to what is the usual price for something in a certain area and how much of this is due to what its really worth. Or are things not intrinsically worth anything, except what you can get people to pay for them?
As for being handicapped,I found that most people had made their places handicapped accessible, but not conveniently so; and a lot of places did not maintain them. I was repeatedly faced with a button to open a bathroom door that was very heavy that did not work. It was at the college where I was in a choir. Usually the parking for someone is handicapped is not close to the front door. I understand they have to put those long ramps there and that was where were the parking was at the end of the ramp not the front door. Also I find I have to use a quad cane to get to the shopping carts or electric cars inside. That is the most dangerous part of the trip for me. It would be nice if carts, etc., could be easily accessible from your car. Occasionally I flag someone down who has a cart or carts and ask them if I can have it for my trip inside.
People can be very helpful and sweet out in public, but sometimes in crowded places they don’t look where they are going and make quick turns. I am now at a stage where I could do without my cane if the place is not crowded and there are walls or furniture to hang on to if I need it. At home I do without; but I am challenged by open spaces and rough ground, roads, and sidewalks and especially in the dark. A lot of this stuff you don’t know until you are there. Stairs and slopes each have there pitfalls. I like to walk on a level surface and curbs and slopes challenge me. Long flights of stairs are scarey (and they need railings or banisters for safety), more so going down than up. Of course I use elevators, but they don’t always have them and I have not yet tried an escalator, but they have them in London if you want to use the underground. I’ve been there. That’s my story, don’t get me going I could talk for hours on this subject. Did you learn anything that you didn’t know?
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