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What Makes Child Sexual Abuse Easier? Gullibility, Secrecy, Opportunity, Second Chances, Disbelief

A Perplexed Child

A Perplexed Child

Gullibility:  We would like to think the best of someone sometimes rather than the worst.  We can be gullible when we believe that any authority figure is an expert about such things if he or she thinks he or she is or should be.

Secrecy:  Family, friends, and associates of sex offenders are afraid if they admit they know about the person’s sexual offender status and/or offenses that some of the onerous might rub off on them and can cause them not to be accepted too so they don’t say anything about it or admit to having a relative or associate with such tendencies.

Disbelief:  (What actually is more onerous is not warning others that the person is not to be trusted to be alone with a child and/or to be in the care of a person who won’t keep the child safe as they see no reason to not to leave a child alone with this person under certain circumstances like when they go to change clothes and the child is taking a nap.)

Sexual offenders are often not found out until they have committed several different offenses with more than one victim.  Also offenses can become more and more onerous over time and what act that may have satisfied the offender’s need for sexual stimulation and climax becomes less satisfying and the offender goes on to doing  things that can not be considered victimless and/or harmful.

Many offenders often convince themselves and try to convince others that they are just educating and helping the victim with his or her sexual adjustment and not leaving it to chance with some other person when they reach adolescence or adulthood with a peer.

Also sexual offenders are not all men and they are not all homosexuals.  Anyone who inappropriately touches or has a child or in some cases adolescent inappropriately touch them in a way that causes sexual arousal and/or climax for the offender or the victim can cause mental and emotional pain, confusion, and discomfort that can be disabling.

Can You "See" What he is feeling?

Can You “See” What he is feeling?

What kind of things can a parent, either mother or father, do that sends confusing messages to their child?  Children can sense when somethings seems or feels right or wrong and in these situations are encouraged by the person doing these things that feel wrong to them to doubt their own feelings and “put up” with it and deny their own feelings or doubts.

People may have different standards of what is right and what is wrong but any responsible adult usually knows that what the offenders are doing in front of the child or making the child do is not in the child’s best interests.

Doing something for the child’s own good can be an excuse for bad behavior or an appropriate reason for doing something the child does not like.  Remember to think twice if a child avoids a person or situation and /or demonstrates the reluctance to do something.

When dealing with child sexual abuse, consult knowledgeable sources with experience and professional education in the area.  Remember even registered nurses usually specialize and do not work in every area of the hospital  or area of practice out in the community.

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